3-Step Process To Help You Make Choices That’s Right For You

Do you often feel like life is happening to you, and you have no control over what happens in your life?

This was the dynamic that I found myself stuck in for, well, most of my life. Until one day, the way out finally clicked for me…

It is all about the choices I was making, and what I am saying about myself to others…

The quote insight you’re about to experience, is a journey of suggested solutions to aid you in navigating these waters and lead you to your own A-HA moments in your life. 

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Everything you experience in your life is a result of the choices you have made...

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The Secret Middle Ground Trap...

The Undercover Choice You Didn't See...

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People often believe that the only 2 choices people can make in life is either ‘Yes‘ or ‘No‘. What they don’t realise, is the hidden choice that a lot of people fall into: 

Not Making A Choice At All” 

You see, when you decide not to do anything, you are in fact “choosing” to do nothing. Sometimes this will work in your favour, but in most cases, it will keep you trapped in the cycle of the situation currently at play. 

For Example:

Say you were presented with a choice to buy a house you really like, you had the funds to do so, but you have decided not to make a decision yet.

With this example above, your mind will keep ruminating over the choice of whether to get the house or not. You might even seek advice outside of you, which leads to you feeling even more confused.

Sooner or later, you would have to make a choice in order to clean up your energy and end this decision cycle.

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Suggested Solutions: Getting Comfortable Choosing

If you have no way but to choose your way through life, in my opinion, you might as well choose the one that will bring you closer/in happiness.

The solutions you are about to dive into, are some of the methods that I’ve personally tried out. My aim is to make the process easier for you, so let’s not waste any more time and dive straight in!

Just a heads-up, this one you will probably find a biggie…

The simple reason is due to you learning to bury your feelings (from childhood) rather than use the power they process to help you make decisions.

Once you have embraced that each emotion you experience plays a vital part in your life, you’ll start to unlock the ability to know instinctively/intuitively when a decision is right or wrong for you.

For Example:

If you get a deep gut feeling against not doing what’s presented to you, that is your body’s way of telling you that this is not in alignment with you.

The same goes for if you get a happy or excited body reaction.

This is a solution I personally utilise a lot in my life.  You see, society will have feel that you can do one thing and one thing only for the rest of your life…

But for those who are itching for change and variety, ignoring your calling and listening to society will have the opposite effect. 

The best way to dip your toes in, is to well… do just that. Give the thing you are urming and arring about a try, then see how you feel on the inside. 

If you still feel excitement during the process, then you know that the choice you’ve made is the right one for you. The same will stand true for the opposite, if you no longer feel drawn to it, then it is no longer a match for you.

My best advice is to follow how you intuitively feel, as that is the key to discovering what truly lights you up.

This would align more to the hidden choice I spoke about earlier in this post. There is no harm in waiting out the storm so to speak, but ONCE a decision has been made.

The issue with the hidden choice comes when you are presented with many crossroads. You still choose to stay in the same place/the middle, and not move further along your path…

But let’s imagine a different pathway. Say you made a decision about the next step for you, no what?

Well, that choice you just made was a powerhouse in itself! Your job now is to hold your faith that it will work out for you no matter what comes your way, and see the evidence of it unfold in your life.

Can you see the difference in ways to make choices now?

You are choosing to move, but carry no expectation on the outcome of HOW it will unfold for you.

All you need to do from that point, is keep yourself open to receiving what you have asked for in the best way that is meant for you.

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Confronting The Fear Of Making A Choice

The main reason you feel limited in your decision making is due to fear.

The fear of being hurt…

The fear of being seen…

The fear of failing…

The fear of succeeding…

I could go on, but this is a post that’s here to inspire a change within you, not bring you into dispair.

When you “Choose” to do something, you’re also choosing to confront the program that was created to keep you safe.

It will push back harrrrrrd, because that’s it job, to keep you safe. However, there is a way that I stumbled across that has helped me to ease the ego, and that was to:

“Speak to it like you would a crying child that needs soothing, and let them (your inner self) know that you’re going to be ok”

 It might seem weird to start doing at first, but you’ll soon start to notice a shift in how less your ego fights back at you when making your decisions.

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Final Insights...

Making choices whether you like it or not, is an ingrained part of who we are as humans. 

I really hope that the methods I have shared with you today help you in creating ease in your decision making. 

Having a life that feels like it is peaceful to enjoy and orchestrate is definitely a must in the day and age we are in.

B.T.W. – If you have experienced any other methods that have helped you to have more confidence in your choices, please do pop them in the usual spot (comments) below. I’d love to hear more about how they have helped to transform your life.

I’ll see you on the next one, and as always, here’s to your many ABUNDANT evolutions 🥂.

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